Monday, September 27, 2010

A Treasure Taken Away

A metaphor. For the purpose of sparing my beloved readers the gory details, I have used this metaphor. If you really want the details, feel free to drop me an email at esurunma@gmail.com with your age :-)
 
My coat of many colors was my prized possession. It was all I had. I could flaunt it and I could boast about it. I treasured it. What was unique about it was that all the patches of materials that made up this coat were joined together with one thread from the beginning to the end of the pieces that were put together. The end of the thread was somewhere on my neck which I tied in a beautiful bow tie. I wore this coat everyday.

There was someone who for many years had been interested in this coat of mine. I did not waste time to let him know how precious it was to me. But one day, as I was strolling home, he told me he had a message for my sister which he left at his place. He asked that I join him to pick it up. Unsuspectingly, I followed him. It was when I got to his place that I saw the sinister look on his face. With just one rough tug at my bow tie, not only did my coat come apart, all the pieces loosened, leaving me naked and ashamed. He gave me N80 (equivalent to 40cents) and told me to get a new dress. But nothing compared to my coat of many colors.

As I walked about in my birthday suit, it took many years to let go of the pain and shame, and to forgive. Until I came to God, I was living in bitterness. But then my loving Father assured me that He will send me someone who will mend the clothes and protectively cover me. God, who keeps His promises, did as He said.
There are many females walking the streets today who have been victims of rape. I do not want to go into statistics because in certain societies, this is not reported or taken seriously legally. Whether she was a virgin or not, as long as what a woman valued was taken forcefully from her, she is left with a scar. Some are so hurt they promise never to come near men – they are scarred for life. Some may even become lesbians. Some decide to sweep it under the carpet and move on with life probably under the deception that it is a rite of passage. Some are full of revenge and decide to take it out on every other man – they close their heart but open their legs, forgetting that they hurt themselves only. Some get married but cannot understand why they do not derive pleasure from being with their husbands. You will be amazed to know how few are the prostitutes who have not been raped. As for age range, let’s not go there.

This post is specific to 2 sets of people.

One set are those women who are still living with the scars of the rape. It might be emotional, physical or mental. It might be an unforgiveness you are carrying in your heart because of the consequences. Your Loving Father wants your body to be indeed His temple. He wants to cleanse you of this hurt and pain. If you have swept it under your carpet and moved on with your life, lift up your carpet. Your Loving Father wants to heal you completely. Go to Him and open your heart to Him today.

The second set are those men who are living with the guilt of what they had done in the past. Your Loving Father has forgiven you even before you asked. You need to forgive yourself. You may have been pondering on how “close” she was to you and how “grave” what you did is, but do not let the enemy rob you of the joy associated with the grace and forgiveness of God.

 
Let me stop here, this post is making me sober. Have a blessed week y'all...

17 comments:

Funms-the rebirth said...

This is such a raw and emotional post...I can't say i totally understand but i believe that God is the only one who can heal if we let him

Maid of Heart said...

(((HUGs)))

jhazmyn said...

All I have is a big hug, hoping to give it to you in person real soon.

doll said...

please i would like the deatils...i can imagine how traumatic this was...shoot me a mail @ dolchic@gmail.com

Thanks so much for sharing

Nutty J. said...

Thank you

Fabulo-la said...

I honestly dont know what to say.

((((Hugs)))))

Blessing said...

Wow! Thanks for sharing. God has brought you so far. I have chills right now! God bless you dear!

fantasy queen said...

it truuly takes the grace of God to heal, forgive and move on.
he gives beauty for ashes, joy for pain, he restores and redeems from pains of the past.

*hugs*

Myne Whitman said...

Hmmm...

That was a sigh of soberness too. Only God can truly heal indeed.

David C Brown said...

Sometimes it is shameful to be a man when you see what evil men can do.

braids said...

what fantasy queen said.

*hugs*

Anoda Phase said...

waoh...this is very emotional...

I'm glad u brought in the angle about forgiveness for the one who did d raping...as difficult as it might be to see those people receive God's forgiveness, His love really does reach out to them also...

Jaycee said...

For you to talk about the men touched me and spoke about forgiveness...

Patrina's Pencil said...

My sweet Rita, I loved this metaphor! You were very creative with the telling of this life experience.

I cried for you - I cried for me - I cried all the others.

And tat powerful closing paragraph - is why IO love you so. Your relationship with the Lord is so genuine! He miles on on your and Mr. Rita - thankful that Mr. Rita has become your beautiful protective coat of many colors. God in His wondrous Love covered you! Wow! This is not only a love story of restoration by your God - but a powerful story of Mr. Rita's' love for you.

You continue to amaze me with your strength!

Carry on, fellow solider :0)

Patrina <")>><

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The nitty-gritty tales of a housewife said...

My first reaction was to log out & don't comment..but i stayed & re-read it twice....i dunno if i should say it here....or mail you instead?................................................................................neither i think...just to let you know, you are not the ONLY one that had been down that road,it's well...((((hugs)))

La Reine (whoiamisme) said...

*sigh*
That really is so true. Needed to hear(ah, read) that.